These are my opinions I do not wish to upset anyone. This topic may be sensitive to some and not for those young.
Anyone is entitled to reject someone for sex for any reason right? Apparently according to some people not wanting to have sex with someone trans is wrong because even if they are not the sex you usually go for, if their gender identity matches that of that sex.
Is preferring to have sex with someone of the same sex to avoid getting a pregnancy wrong? Is it wrong to only want straight or gay sex (sex orientation based)? I thought people were allowed to be with whoever they want that they are attracted to. And sex is risky and intimate thing I don’t think to take lightly, if someone doesn’t like or not interested then there is no reason they should.
While I think open mindness is good and some people do carry bias whether it be racial or whatever. The amount of people sending threats to those who do not want to have sex with them such as in the trans case but even just with anyone is staggering. Even putting those others who may identify as ‘trans’ in a bad place. I even believe that sometimes sexuality is quite fluid for a lot (but maybe not all some people do have more innate orientation to one side) of people and we don’t always need to be so quick to judge but I think these decisions should be made by the individuals themselves not by others forcing it down on them. There is attraction based on many things like femininity, masculinity whatever (though don’t necessarily need to label). At the end of the day we like who we like and even if some of that is influenced by society and upbringing (stereotypes, values etc), naturally that won’t include everyone.
And if you are “bi” you are still entitled to have boundaries and reject people even if that is 99 per cent of people.
If you are asexual you don’t need to succumb to pressure or find medical cures or whatever.
Even if you are not technically asexual nor call yourself so you do not need to have sex. Whether you are abstaining, can’t find the ‘right person’ or just don’t care.
People need to know its alright not to want to have sex. Guys who keep going back to the same girl because they might change their mind like stop it’s not nice to pressure people. Or cast doubt on their intentions. There are other ways to be close other than this and it should be up to individuals what they want to do, getting someone else to have sex with you isn’t a right as such it has to be mutually consensual in a honest place, not violating people’s boundaries. That said i’m not a fan of mutually consensual more violent practices either that some people are into but I think it is still in that case up to the people involved until it gets really bad.
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